The RV lifestyle, particularly the full-time lifestyle, has its own blessings — and curses.
Imagine sinking a huge amount of money into that perfect full-timing rig, liquidating the “stix and brix” house, heading out on the road, and within a few weeks find you drive each other to distraction. Some have done so. So before you set off on a full-time adventure, it’s best to sit down and take stock on a personal level.
Why do you want to full-time — both of you? Is one really interested in the full-time lifestyle and the other just humoring the partner? You may want to see the country, but how do you want to see it — in a relaxed, “If we like it here we’ll stay for a few weeks” manner; or does one want to do a “If this is Tuesday, this must be Cheboygan” method? Does he like snow country travel while she would rather bask on a Florida beach?
Frank, open discussions are something every couple needs to undertake, before undertaking the full-time lifestyle — else you may wish you’d seen the undertaker. You may well have different interests, but do you have enough common interests to make it work?
Another point to give real thought to is the matter of personal space. There isn’t much room in an RV, even a BIG one. When you full-time, you’re underfoot of one another a great deal. If you have problems getting along now, when you can walk out and go someplace or retire to the den at the other end of the house, the full-time lifestyle may not be your best choice. Remember the old maxim: A good marriage is made up of two good forgivers. If you have problems getting along now, you can be assured the potential pressure-cooker environment may really cause you to blow your safety valve.
We aren’t trying to scare you away from what can be a wonderfully fulfilling time together. But close, mutual evaluation may show that compromises will be needed to make full-timing your truly happy lifestyle together.
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